The joy, meditation and quiet rebellion of fixing your clothes by hand.
I don’t really remember when I first became aware of the dark side of fashion. The realization was part of a cascade of awakenings sparked by news of the 2013 tragedy of the Rana Plaza garment factory collapse in Bangladesh, watching the excellent documentary The True Cost and following the “Who Made My Clothes?” campaign led by Fashion Revolution. If the majority of our clothes have come at the cost of slave labor, pollution, suffering and waste, then mending is one response—an act of healing, of acknowledging and honoring the labor and resources that went into making the garment.
Almost a decade ago, my sister Nina and I started teaching ourselves to mend our things as they ripped, wore out and fell apart. We certainly haven’t become experts, but we don’t really want to be. This is everyone’s work and a relatively simple skill—one that most folks used to know. As mothers, we’ve found ourselves continuously mending threadbare knees from crawling babies and stuffies tattered from constant love. As farmers, we’ve mended heavy-duty bibs, thick woolen socks and even straw sun hats. As artists, we’ve fallen in love with the beauty of imperfect mending and how a mend can carry a story: How did it break and who fixed it?
We saw an opportunity to lend our efforts in reviving these skills far and wide. Since 2016, we’ve focused on education and inspiration, starting with sharing simple mending tutorials on our Instagram page (@thefarwoods) for things like how to darn a sock or fix a hole in the knee of your pants or leggings—even a quick watch-strap mend demonstrated by our Mama. Offline, we started teaching mending classes and repair workshops, and in 2020, we wrote and illustrated Mending Life: A Handbook for Repairing Clothes and Hearts. Through our work, we’ve found that many people are hungry to learn how to become active participants in their wardrobes instead of just consumers. The care, intention and unique hand folks bring to their repairs help them fall more in love with mended things.
This holiday season, here’s a fresh gift idea: offer to mend a friend’s or family member’s garment. If you don’t know how, start by seeking out one of the many mending resources: watch YouTube videos, search Instagram for #visiblemending, read our book or ask a friend to teach you. Alternatively, if you already know how to mend, offer to teach a friend how! It is an invaluable gift that will serve them for a lifetime. Creating—and living in—the future we want to see is going to take millions upon millions of small acts of reconciliation, love and repair.
FIY! (Fix it Yourself)
Visit our Care & Repair page and learn how to keep your gear better than new, and out of the landfill, too.